When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned

The old saying goes: “Make lemonade when life provides you lemons.” But I argue against that. I say it’s fine to weep, to be angry, or to feel hopeless when life offers you a heaping bunch of lemons. Why? Well, just because we need feelings like that. Lets know about what to do When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned.

Before we can enjoy the lemonade, we must feel the crap and the sorrow. 

Many people are afraid or anxious. Some people will even shift the responsibility to something or someone else in the worst cases just to avoid blame.

We still want the same things, like acceptance, no matter what we believe in. We can not limit ourselves to wallow in self-pity or wait for windfall to come when life does not go as scheduled.

Who understands, perhaps in the universe’s grand plan, we had no purpose all the time. So you can develop your own task, life. Accept and learn to appreciate what you have for the present.

Given the principle of impermanence, life is full of change.

Even the cells in your body have a finite lifespan, nothing stays the same. Be ensured with this in mind that change is part of the human condition. Work with it instead of opposing it. The more you resist what’s going on, the less you have control.

Everything’s in your head. We all need to be genetically programmed in order to sometimes see the worst out of a situation, not the best.

I think that if you alter your perspective, you can change your life and everything begins to look and feel different from that phase on. It’s the ideal piece of advice to put a different perspective on a scenario. When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned.

Be courageous to find out who you are. Many of us have entirely sorted out our lives – this is how many kids I’m going to have, this is where I’m going to live, this is what I want to do – to the point where we may not question whether this is what we really want.

So it can shake us to the core if something unusual happens that changes our life plans. We become fragile, uncertain about ourselves, and worried about what to do — and this may feel very difficult.

Be courageous and ride those emotions out, as you can just find out what you’re really looking for.

Sometimes for a reason things don’t work out, or they just don’t work out sometimes. We can look for a lesson to learn from each failure, either way. If we learn from it, nothing is really a failure. As we develop, lesson by lesson, we are going to be more satisfied with who we are and move forward with greater confidence.

There’s a answer to every question. 

All you need is to stop, close your eyes, and think before you move forward. Take a rest when things seem unworkable. So remember constantly that the universe may decide; even if you try so hard to maintain a life you want.

And what matters is how you choose to react to it – that’s what life is all about.

Life was never intended to be planned. Misery is when we attempt to get everything under control and behave like schemers.

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