The most difficult thing now days is maintaining your authenticity. We often compromise with our real selves because we’re too worried about other’s point of view. But you need to remember one thing it’s okay to be yourself, no matter what they say.
How many times you do things because you were asked to do that not because you really want to do that? Many times right. If yes then you really need to work towards loving yourself more and knowing yourself more.
What is being yourself actually means?
It starts with accepting yourself as an individual. We live in society and we need to co-operate with other human beings to live but in the process, you also need to respect yourself as an individual being.
Being yourself means to love yourself enough, to respect your choices, to be happy with who you are. Not changing yourself to fit in.
How to be yourself?
Well, it’s all about your self-confidence. Everyone goes through a phase in life where you don’t know what to do? You get confused about life. It’s a common thing many people experience. In the process, we lose ourselves to meet other people’s expectations.
Sometimes we feel we’re not enough. But Just as you are, you are enough. You need to keep this in your mind. Trust me It’s okay to be yourself.
Let’s know about a few ways to be yourself
The first key to reach towards being yourself is acceptance. First, you need to accept yourself after that except someone else to accept you. If you’re not comfortable being you, It’s not going to work. Accept your personality, accept your needs, accept your values, and accept your feelings. Accept that It’sokaytobeyourself.
One of the important aspects of being yourself is believing. Believe in yourself. Nobody is perfect but every one is worth for themselves. Believe that you’re worthy of living your life your way. You don’t need to be behind people or be like someone else just because you want to achieve something. Trust yourself enough, create a belief system that says it’s okay to be yourself, no matter what they say.
Trust your instincts
What I personally feel vibes, energy, and instincts are important. If you want to be yourself you really need to trust them. Sometimes we do things just because society or people want us to do that. But somewhere deep down we know that it’s wrong or I’m not comfortable doing that. I should do something else instead. We ignore our instinct and do what others say.
You really need to stop that. Just use your brain, trust your instincts, and move with that.
Ignore the negativity
Sometimes we want to do what our heart says but society stops us. But somehow we manage to fight back and follow our heart but there’s a lot of negativity around us. That doesn’t want us to move ahead. And sometimes in our vulnerable state somehow we get influenced by that and fall into the trap and move back.
Know that it’s not worth it. You need to ignore all the negativity and focus on what you want. If you start messing with that negativity you can not move ahead in your life. You’ll waste your energy where it doesn’t matter. So preserve your energy, ignore the irrelevant, and head towards your path where you’ll get to know it’s okay to be yourself, no matter what they say.
Follow all these ways to be yourself but always remember one thing. There’s a difference between being yourself and being arrogant.
Why it’s okay to be yourself no matter what they say?
Well, you’ve got only one life and how much? you never know. So better live it to the fullest by being yourself and by your standards.
We often get conscious about ourselves, our actions, and decisions but the truth is people and society hardly care. At the end of the day, you and your loved ones will matter. Remember one thing happiness is a choice and choose to be happy by accepting yourself the way you’re. If you’re different that’s completely okay. Be the total owner of your life.